Any man who is successful with women follows the same basic pattern of behavior. These behavior patterns that ultimately lead to success in love form the dating rules for men. Follow these simple tips if you want to be more attractive to pretty girls.
We live in times of gender equality, however, to be successful, guys must realize that dating and work have different rules. It’s like turning the lights on and off – when it’s sunny outside, you don’t need additional lighting in a room. But when it gets dark, doing things indoors without the lights on is impractical. These dating rules work the same way – you must follow them if you want to have a good relationship.
1. Appearance matters
The simplest way to instantly improve your results with women is to dress better. Women love a man who looks neat and clean, just like you can’t miss a beautiful girl walking into a room. The same product, packaged differently, will show different results if it is sold in a store. Even if you think, “It shouldn’t matter,” your appearance is important to women.
No matter how comfy this worn t-shirt and shorts feel, they won’t help you get the girl of your dreams. But a relatively small amount of money spent on buying clothes that looks great on you will take you several steps closer to having a girlfriend or long-term partner, if that’s your goal.
– Go to a good department store and ask a male clerk to help you choose outfits. You will need a pair of pants and jeans, 3-4 long-sleeved shirts and polo shirts, a jacket, and 1-2 pairs of shoes, plus matching socks.
– Tell the shop assistant how much money you are willing to spend and he can create some attractive costumes for you.
– It is better to buy clothes in one place, as the items may not match if they are bought separately and you are not a fashion guru.
– Then just wear your new clean and ironed clothes when going on dates or taking photos for your online dating profile.
– Unless you work on your appearance and presentation first, all other dating rules and ideas won’t work. Girls are just put off by guys who look messy.
2. Get healthy
If you are overweight, lose a few pounds. Ditch the sugar, eat veggies instead of potatoes or pasta, and ditch fast food and soda. Moderate exercise will speed up your metabolism. There is no quick fix to being in good shape, but in the long run, it will not only bring you more dates, but it will also make you happier and allow you to enjoy life and love for longer.
Smoking is also a problem for many women. If you quit smoking, your dating pool will increase 3 to 4 times.
3. Get interesting
Dating success is more about who you are than what you say or do. Regardless of how you act with a woman, if you spend your free time in front of a screen watching television or surfing the Internet, there are not many things you can impress her with. Sure, with a good outfit, a haircut, and some routine you learned in a pickup class, you might be able to get past the initial introductory stage, but what are you going to do next? A man is attractive as a relationship partner to a lady if he has some substance.
Having mutual goals in life is a great way to be interesting to a quality lady, as well as hobbies and similar hobbies.
4. Stop complaining
Negative people destroy your partner’s enjoyment of life. Get in the habit of following the old rule: “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything” for a while. After a few weeks, you will notice that the people around you and the women in your life have become warmer towards you. You may find yourself saying negative things multiple times, but you can definitely turn positive if you simply decide that this is what you want to achieve.
5. Improve self-awareness
It’s easier to meet someone for a relationship when you know who you are and what you want, without being too hard on yourself or too optimistic. Take some time to write down on a piece of paper what are your best qualities and flaws, dreams and goals. There are people in this world who want someone like you and you don’t need to pretend to be someone you are not. Be yourself, accept yourself and live to do better; that’s the key.
6. Establish an online dating profile
Once you’ve worked out the basics (rules 1-5), it’s time to start dating online. A good photo on your profile where you are well dressed and looking, positive text that expresses who you really are and describes some interesting hobbies will make a great first impression. With a good profile, you can score some dates.
It is easier to meet women online than in clubs and bars. Another important fact is that quality women rarely or never spend time in evening entertainment venues, but do join dating sites.
You don’t have to limit your options for meeting women on the Internet. Having hobbies and participating in community life (p.3) will help you get in touch with some single women. Still, the Internet is an extremely easy way to start conversations with other singles and it would be unwise to lose its advantages. You can also learn a lot about women and what they want by reading their profiles.
Basically the online dating tips and ideas for communicating with girls in real life are the same. Any meeting on the Internet should result in a real date, only then does a genuine relationship begin.
7. Approaching women
Being a man, it is your responsibility to start. Sure, some women take the lead, too, but overall, you’ll be 10 times more successful if you approach women first. It doesn’t matter that 20 girls have not replied to your messages on a dating site. Maybe your email n. 21 reach the woman who has been looking for someone like you all her life. You just need a suitable person, so keep submitting these first few requests. Some will be accepted and you can begin your new love affair.
8. Learn to reflect
Each person has their communication style. Some people speak a lot and in a loud voice, others say little and speak in a low voice. The use of words and the amount of information per message also differ. Try to adapt your communication style and vocabulary to that of your partner. It will be easier for them to connect with what you are saying and feel closer to you.
When you’re on a face-to-face date, the same applies to gestures and poses. If you walk away when she leans in, it’s not good body language. She leans over, you lean too, this is called a reflex. Try to do it in your daily conversations with other people first and then use the same method to date women. It makes women feel comfortable and allows them to relax in your company.
9. Be interested
The simplest way to get people interested in you is to get them interested in them: who they are, what they do, what they love, the things they do for fun. While chatting, in communication online, or in person on a date, try to discover things that are common to both of you. Maybe you’ve seen the same comedy show in Los Angeles or you both visited Paris. The more things you have in common, the more comfortable the lady will feel with you.
10. The woman who likes you will want to be with you
If you simply followed the 9 steps above, you will have enough options to meet single women seeking relationships. Just keep setting dates, attend, and do the best you can.
Over time, you’ll get a lot better at dating, just like doing push-ups every day will guarantee you good biceps in a few months.
– if a woman doesn’t like you, she doesn’t like you; That’s all it is. It does not mean that he is not a good man and a great potential relationship partner. There are billions of other women in the world and it’s a waste of time trying to get a woman who doesn’t like who you are with you.
– Just get in touch with other women and you will find the right partner.
– There are countless success stories that prove it works.
You don’t need luck, you just have to, and you will find the love you’ve always dreamed of.
