Ok, you want to start online dating like most people, but you are looking for the best online dating sites. It seems like every time I turn on the TV I see a new commercial for some matchmaking site. They show a cute couple all happy without a care in the world. I doubt they work? Of course not, if you know how to work with any system, including matchmaking sites, you will be able to connect with someone.

What I find hard to understand is paying fees to meet people that most sites offer for free. What do I mean? OK, there’s a site I know you about and everyone you know has heard of. It’s called MySpace. Yeah, pretty simple and boring correct answer. However, this site is getting thousands of people visiting their site every minute. I did an Alexa search that ranks websites by the number of visitors they get, and MySpace is ranked #7. Okay, so you’re telling me that with all these different types of people visiting, you can’t get just one date?

Of course he can! The point is to know how to really find that girl you are looking for. Filtering can be a bit tricky, but it sure is worth it when it’s free. Don’t forget about the other big giant called Facebook. They are ranked number 5 which is just amazing. These websites are absolutely packed with people looking to connect with others.

Why would you miss out on potentially thousands of people in your area who would be interested in you? If you like paying monthly fees for matchmaking, then go for it. However, I strongly suggest you try these different social networks seriously. Don’t just try it for a day or two, give it an honest try and see if it works for you.

What is the worst that can happen? You end up where you started without paying a matchmaking membership fee. But what’s the best that can come out of it? Lots of hot dates with people around you that only took a couple of extra minutes to filter.

Sounds like a sweet deal to me!