There are countless techniques and tools that you can use in the art of flirting. And since texting is such a favorable form of communication, it seems a shame not to include it on your list of flirting tools. Texting can add a whole new range to flirting with your man. Is personal. It is private. And the best thing is that you can send and receive it from anywhere.

While I think texting is a great way to seduce your man, you should know when to use it. I don’t think texting works very well for someone you just started dating. You must know the person and have flirted with them in person or on the phone. By doing this, you’ll get an idea of ​​what turns them on and what turns them off. It also helps prevent the dreaded rejection from someone who may not be interested in you.

If you’re a little shy about flirting in person or on the phone with your man, flirting over text can help you conquer that. By deciding what you would like to say, you can feel comfortable with the message you are sending. Also, by seeing a positive response to your text flirtation, you may feel more comfortable flirting with your man on the phone and in person.

Here are a few things I’ve found work well when flirting over text:

Be subtle. You don’t have to be overly sexual to be sexy. Sometimes when the message is too risky, it can be a turn off. Hinting at what will happen can be much more seductive than telling. Leave something to your imagination. Let him spend the day thinking about what’s in store for him when he sees you. The words must have an element of seduction and be clear to him.

Watch what you say. Remember that even the most savvy of texters has sent messages to the wrong person. So you shouldn’t put anything in a text message that could embarrass you or him if seen by a friend, co-worker, or family member. Many conversations are best left for flirting over the phone or face-to-face unless it’s something you’re both comfortable with, even if you don’t care what people think, he does. And you don’t want a flirty text to become the cause of problems in your relationship.

Be creative. Since it is a text, you have time to think about what you send and how you respond. You can turn your texts into a story that will lead you to the moment you are together. Building seduction during the day. As you become more creative and comfortable with flirting and what he likes, you can clearly state what you want and leave enough to his imagination that he’ll wait impatiently for the opportunity to see you.

Have fun with him. Please note that this is a flirting tool. So make it an extension of how you already flirt with your man. You will feel comfortable and he will not feel that you are doing something that does not fit your personality, that he is the person he is attracted to. And who knows, maybe he’ll flirt with you or start sending you his own flirty messages.