In fact, marriages are made in heaven. But is it applicable for all girls? Well, in my opinion, it’s a big NO. By the time she crosses the age of 18, her parents begin to think that she may never marry her if she continues to be career-oriented. Then her parents or her boyfriend push her into married life, where the scenario takes a massive turn. The first adventure is presented as a circus show where everyone goes to see the ‘new daughter-in-law’. She must be beautiful as well as smart to win first place. Her face must resemble that of goddess Lakshmi and she must be a scholar. When all the neighbors and family members appreciate her in all respects, she gains the position of an ideal daughter-in-law. Well, all the appreciation and praise was given without even knowing her name. Then her perfect figure and her hair come into the picture. Oh Lord! She adds great value to her reputation.

a competent worker

Let’s check your working capacity. Wait a minute; Are you working in an office or at home? Poor me! The girl, who is extremely educated and held a managerial position in her office, is expected to know all the housework. How will she know? She was busy studying and building her career. She barely had time to relax. Her mother cooked and washed clothes. But her in-laws, who are also the parents of a girl, expect this from her alleged daughter.

Sacrifice is only expected of wives

The girl sacrifices her name, room, the comfort of her mother’s arms, the security of her father’s presence, job, hobbies, privacy, and even her identity, just to be a cook and a maid. But the irony is that when the same people go from being in-laws to being parents to their beloved daughter, they become overprotective. They expect her son-in-law to stay at her house where her daughter-in-law will do all the royal arrangements and they will collect the thanks. But they never want her son to stay at her father-in-law’s house. Is this a girl, who had a bright future, does she deserve her? She could have been the boss of people equivalent to her husband. But, she sacrifices him out of love and respect.

What is our future?

This is the scenario of each house. I don’t know where we’re headed. Being the mother of a girl, I really worry about her future. After all, our society does not accept a single girl. So the bottom line is to raise her like a guinea pig and hand her over to people who don’t care about her or her opinions at all. Where will we be in twenty years? It’s up to us young people. If we raise our children to respect the woman and her feelings, the scenario can change. Girls should also be taught to respect others and be self-reliant.

conclusion

If the children are allowed to sleep as long as they want, your wife should be allowed to sleep as well. If a wife can cook after work, husbands can too. In this way, our country will be able to find happy and healthier families. Chiefdom and slavery will be removed from the face of society and nuclear families will unite to become one. An equal right gets equal standing and we can definitely look forward to a brighter future.