Apparently, infidelity is no longer a problem related to men, but it is growing exponentially among women. The stigmas associated with women cheating on their spouse in previous decades have gradually eroded and infidelity by women hardly raises an eyebrow. While there may be an increase in the amount of infidelity among women, based on available statistics, men are even more to blame for this notorious act.
Men often consider women to be naive, but are unaware of the fact that women may not be as nice when they are hurt or not treated the way they feel they deserve to be treated. A woman can do impossible, often unbelievable and unthinkable things if her spouse despises her. If she does this because of something her spouse did or didn’t do, then she could do it without a single regret.
While men can react quickly to offenses committed by their spouse, for most women it could take days, weeks, months or even years, but she will take her time getting back at her spouse to even the score and this to It is often applied to infidelity. Also, while most men cheat for more physical reasons, women cheat primarily for emotional reasons including loneliness, revenge, boredom, low self-esteem, etc., rather than lust.
There can be a multitude of reasons women cheat, but below, in no particular order, are some of the biggest reasons women are reported to cheat on their spouses.
They are bored in the relationship.
Women are naturally romantic and always want to be in the spotlight of their spouse’s world. Romantic dinners, surprise getaways and anything that brings a spark of romance to brighten a woman’s heart and make her feel special are the things a man should never forget to keep doing to his wife if he wants her to be faithful to him. . Women also get bored in a relationship when the routine of daily tasks starts to get to them.
Not enough sex and boredom in the bedroom
While men are the ones who naturally want more sex than women, things like job pressure, mortgage and other responsibilities can cause a man to reduce the amount of sex in the relationship or relegate it to the background altogether. If you don’t want your woman to cheat on you, then don’t let her life and responsibility get in the way of your sex life and other romantic things like kissing and hugging.
Also, men should avoid becoming too monotonous sexually. They say that variety is the spice of life and always using the same position, the same moment and the same environment can make sex a drag. Many women cheat as a result of being bored with the monotony of sex in their current relationship and therefore seek to bring the excitement back into their life through an extramarital affair. Make sex as fun as possible and avoid routine by reducing repetitive sexual patterns.
Therefore, men must never forget that women have sexual and emotional needs that must be met in order to remain happy and satisfied in a relationship and that they must give their full attention properly to meeting these needs or else they could be inviting sex. to a stranger without realizing it. help them.
Lack of selfesteem
If a woman has low self-esteem and doesn’t receive the right amount of admiration from her partner, the fact that another man finds her desirable would often make up for what they feel is lacking in their relationship.
Simple adulation from a strange male admirer can make such a woman suddenly feel sexier, more beautiful, and loved simply by knowing that someone has taken an interest in her. This insecurity generated by low self-esteem often leads women to seek affirmation of their desirability outside of the relationship by engaging in extramarital affairs.
As revenge for past mistakes or cheating
As the saying goes “hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned”. It’s obviously no longer “a man’s world” where they expect to eat their cake and have it. The modern woman is no longer willing to relax and accept the fact that her spouse may cheat on her.
When a woman feels unappreciated, betrayed, or hurt by a wrong done by her spouse, which may be cheating or something else, and she has not yet forgiven her spouse, she may cheat to get her pound of flesh and hurt her spouse just as he has done. been injured. Therefore, cheating could be her way of getting back at her and paying back for the wrong her spouse did to her.
Although every woman handles infidelity differently, if she hasn’t forgiven her spouse, she will accept it to even the score or have nothing to do with it.
You do not find satisfaction in the relationship
Women need their spouses to commit to them in some way. If you have been in a long-term relationship and nothing seems to come out of it, there may be problems brewing in that relationship. No matter what the women’s revolution has brought about, every woman from the bottom of her heart still yearns for a place to call home, especially a house, a marriage, some sort of commitment, and hopefully forming a family. a family.
This is probably the biggest reason women cheat. When she is unhappy and dissatisfied and her spouse is not giving her what she wants or needs in the relationship, a woman can make the relationship miserable for her spouse and cheating on him can be a very tempting proposition.
Having a pre-midlife crisis
Women go through many experiences like drastic weight loss or gain, new job, new friends, and a pre-midlife crisis, which is similar to the male midlife crisis, only much worse with one important difference, a difference that can actually make women are more likely to cheat than men.
During this period, if the lines of communication between her and her spouse are not open, the tendency to want to talk to someone about these issues could lead her to cheat when a male counterpart is available to listen.
lack of intimacy
There is nothing that women crave like intimacy in a relationship. Little things like hugging, kissing, touching, and caressing with open communication are things that make women more attached to a relationship than just sex (although this is also very important).
Feeling abandoned and unappreciated
Never forget to do those little things that count for your woman from time to time as they add up to show her how much you appreciate her efforts. Women’s feelings and emotions run deeper than is often realized and therefore they are very sensitive to being unappreciated and neglected.
One of the most important things in a woman’s life that you should avoid forgetting is her special days like her birthday, an anniversary, or other special days where she might naturally admire you doing something special for her.
Escape strategy
Just as some men are afraid of breaking up and prefer to cheat as an excuse to break up, women also have this tendency when they feel that their needs are not being met in the relationship. They find it more difficult to deal with a broken relationship and infidelity is seen as a much easier way to end the relationship.
because they can
Modernity and the change in the current status of women has provided women with many more opportunities to deviate compared to previous decades. Today, women are sent on business trips and participate in social events just as much as their male counterparts.
To prevent your spouse from cheating on you, the most important thing you can do, whether as a man or a woman, is to keep the lines of communication open. Sit down with your spouse and discuss what your emotional, financial, social and, of course, sexual needs are and how you can work them out together.
