Surely you have dreamed of the day when you could talk to a woman and leave her completely speechless and intrigued afterwards. Unfortunately, that day has not yet come true. Here are some simple things you can do to change this and put the power back in her hands.

call her

In simple terms, “calling up a woman” involves pointing out to her that you’ve noticed how she behaves when she does something: unacceptable, immature, indecisive, flaky, etc. You can choose to do this in a very direct way or use humor to be more fun. If you’re just starting out, then the best step is to state the obvious (without trying to make it funny or humorous) so she can see that you’re paying attention and not like all the other men in your life who let her get away with it. with bad behavior.

Here are some examples:

1. She doesn’t answer your phone calls

Leave her a voicemail and give her instructions on how to use the phone, “Hi Amanda, I just wanted to leave you this voicemail to tell you to press the green button to answer the phone. Now, we have that.” fixed, hopefully I can talk to you soon.”

2. Makes a sarcastic comment directed at you

“Was that sarcasm? You’re out of practice, aren’t you? It helps if you don’t scowl when you say it,” or “Very sarcastic?” or “Was that you in the classroom when I was studying?” sarcasm101 in high school? You’ve come so far since then!” *high-fives her*

3. She strays after you ask her a question.

“Now, that was a brilliant way of not answering my question. So now that you’ve bought yourself some time, what’s your answer?”

give him a challenge

This involves you setting up the situation in such a way that SHE is the one who has to work to gain your attention and approval. This is often surprising and refreshing for a woman because she’s not handing her all your attention and approval on a silver platter simply because she finds her physically attractive. At first, the more you have to work to get her attention and approval, the more likely she is to appreciate you.

Examples of how you can do this include:

1. Ask challenging questions

Ask questions like “So what’s your excuse for being alone on a Friday night?”; “What makes you think I’m going to answer your question?”; or “Okay, so how hard is it for you to decide between your hair up or down in the morning?”

2. Play together and see who wins

Compete over who has the most interesting story on a particular topic; watching a couple together and role-playing what they might be saying to each other at any moment; decide who plays the coolest musical instrument; etc.

3. Have him demonstrate or explain something to you

Ask her: what makes her so interesting; why he speaks in a particular way; why she is wearing a certain accessory; why buses should run faster; why he orders a “double non-fat, non-frothed latte” instead of a latte; or why the president should be the president, etc.

My point is that if you want to learn how to make a woman speechless, it doesn’t matter what you say to call her out or what you do to challenge her: it’s the fact that you just DO IT! You know why? Because 95% of the other men who talk and interact with her don’t. And by doing so, you put yourself in that top 5% that leaves a very strong and compelling impression in her mind.